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Poor housing, bad food, but the humour is good and
you are well looked after …
Thirteen of the fifteen people I stayed with in Sweden had been to England at least once. But the question is
whether a weekend in London gives a true picture of England or just contributes to preserve stereotypes?
Although five of my study subjects had lived in England for longer periods.
"They’re polite and say " love "and stuff like that to
strangers. They drink a lot of tea. They eat bad food. Disastrous school
dinners and not so good schools either. "
"I have met many English people who have lived cool lives and had
cool thoughts. But I have a bit of a problem with Englishness, there’s too much
talk. Everything is "lovely" and "darling" and "nice
to meet you." You’re always well looked after, but I have not met anyone,
have never had a true meeting. "
"It's a cool language, I like English ladies, they call you "
love "and" darling ", you feel looked after in some way."
"Bad food, anyway. They drink tea a lot. I don’t know much about
the culture, it’s similar to Sweden .”
"Courtesy."
"There’s nothing weird about saying hello to people in the street.
They’re very nice and polite, you get a cup of tea, you’re always invited. Very
homelike. "
"There’s not much of a food culture. But there’s history, many
events, festivals and things like that. I also think they’re very nice. Some
people just start chatting to you, like the lady on the bus. "
"Not good food in general, but super good breakfasts in particular.
Full English breakfast is a treat, that you can have breakfast in the middle of
the day is a special thing. "
"Not very high standard, cold flats."
"All the houses are cold. But I like the houses and the villages,
the old stone houses. "
"The fucking fitted carpets, the draught, the mould, the damp and on top of that the unreasonable rents, damn it!”
"Usually they’re quite nice but sound pretty posh because they
speak English. I’m more used to American English, Americans are more relaxed.
Great beer, ginger-haired people, rowdy football fans."
"It feels more open. People talk to you just like that, it doesn't happen very often in Sweden . For example I have done coach surfing
there and it’s so natural. Here, people find it a bit weird."
"They're very polite, respectful. They’re respectful towards each
other, but don’t have respect for authorities. "
"I like British humour, Monty Python."
"Fish 'n' chips. The Royal Family. Humour, comedy, they have the
best TV series. "
"They’re not that complicated. They are light-hearted, have a
certain kind of humour.”
"The rain. I have watched the Time Team, a series of archaeologists
in Britain . It always rain, they’re always soaked. "
"The class system, social division. People voted for Margaret
Thatcher. And they voted a second time! A lot of neo-liberal crap. Poor
housing. But a lot of culture, music and stuff. "
"A colonial empire. The standard of living and the living
conditions are poor. Low wages, crappy jobs. There’s no paternity leave. They
still have gender-segregated schools, which is so incredibly conservative and
affects people a lot. Their view of women.”
"I'm not particularly drug liberal. The country is a bit passive
and it doesn't feel like an exaggeration to link it to the drugs."
"I keep returning to England to get cultural kicks. I watched the
Olympic opening ceremony and realised how much I love English culture, it’s the
country that has influenced me the most culturally. I almost forget about it
because there’s so much that is destructive and sad."
"Brighton is the most vital, vibrating, inspiring
city I've ever visited."
"Very old houses. Architecture. A lot of countryside, pub culture,
and a lot of football. Rain."
"People are more extreme and stick out more than in Sweden . They say what they mean, but I don’t not
know if that’s true. "
"I think a lot about London , it's like other European cities:
shopping and musicals, but that’s such a small part of England . There are many people who have been to Stockholm and think that’s Sweden . London is not the whole of England . "
"More familiarity, I picture a pub in front of me, the whole family
goes to the pub. A football mad country. The Queen, conservative and royalist.
"
"More crowded, more packed, more density in cities."
"Very conservative, but I don’t know if it’s like that, I don’t
have in-depth knowledge. I was in London many years ago. It was stern and strict.
At Harrods we were not allowed to stand still, a little stiffer than Sweden ."
"Divided, more conservative, hierarchies. More rebellious,
artistic."
"Spontaneous, simple, easy to understand. Easy to find your way,
easy to go on the tube, easy to live there."
This study is by no means scientific, the answers to
this particular question are based on interviews with fifteen people in Sweden , aged 22-52. Next question: Where have
you travelled?
Very polite and easy going. Best people in the world to get blind drunk with :)
ReplyDeleteVery polite and easy going. Best people to get blind drunk with in Greece,Spain, ya name it
ReplyDeleteHaha, glad your'e enjoying your Swedes!
ReplyDeleteLove Sweden and Swedish culture. I am autistic and find the language easy to learn and understand. You use so few words and say what mean, it’s a much less expressive language and that’s a good thing for me.
ReplyDeleteLove Sweden, very easy to feel at home, the culture is almost identical to English. I don’t know where you people go to eat when you come to England but the food is absolutely as good as anywhere in Scandinavia. I love the language. I am autistic so I really appreciate how few words you use and the totally to the point way that you use them, very easy to understand. It’s not a very expressive language, very functional, and that’s a very good thing
ReplyDeleteHi Carl, good to hear and interesting point about the language :) But I sometimes miss the English language when I write in Swedish ...
ReplyDeleteI've never met a Swede that wasn't a lovely person! It feels like there's synergy between our nations. Will be interesting to see how the relationship develops now Brexit is done. I didn't want Brexit and want to stay as close as possible to our European friends :) Plus you have THE best metal bands!!! I'm surprised by the comments about food in the UK, they must be eating in the wrong places XD
ReplyDeleteYes am very sad about Brexit too as I can't move as easily between the two countries as before ... Regarding the food, I think people think about traditional "sloppy" English pub food and so on, but of course there are lovely dishes too, I absolutely love a full (veggie) English breakfast!
DeleteI'm more into punk and love the old school British punk from '77 :)